Pause and Think Calmly

Selah, our posture! A space to transform old perspectives. We offer grace and ease in sessions to allow you to feel safe, seen and heard. We work confidentially together towards lasting change. It takes courage to begin this journey and we are happy you found us. How can we help?
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About

We Listen, Act, & Transform

Feeling disoriented, deflated and just tired can make it hard to experience joy. How can I walk alongside of you? Are you ready to regain balance? To break cyclical behaviours and thoughts? Or to grow in deeper intimacy in your relationships. My specialty is most helpful for individuals, couples and families looking to navigate life’s challenges. I believe that experiencing freedom brings out the best version of you. In sessions, I offer grace and ease to allow you to feel safe, seen and heard. You and I will confidentially work together towards lasting change. It takes courage to begin the counselling process and I am happy you found me. As a Registered Social Worker with over 16 years of experience, my intersectional identities and diverse professional, academic, and lived experiences deeply inform my therapeutic approach. My career spans various public institutions, including the criminal justice system, child welfare, and municipal government, where I have led efforts to create meaningful change and advocate for reconciliation, belonging, and recognition for marginalized communities. In more recent years, I am privileged to offer counselling services; facilitate provincial equity and anti-black racism courses; and lecture in the behavioural psychology and behavioural science program. 
Vanessa Mensah, MBA, RSW
Couple and Family Therapist

Services

We Can Help You Through

  • Trauma
  • Child Protection Issues
  • Stress
  • Life Transitions
  • Inner Healing
  • Separation and Parenting Plan
  • Critical Incident Support
  • Reunification
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Family Conflict
  • Blended Families
  • Custody Issues
  • Family Therapy
  • Anxiety
  • Emotional Wounds
  • Moral Injuries
  • Organizational Relationships
  • Soft Skill Coaching

Approaches

  • Trauma Focused
  • Strength-Based
  • Biblical Principals/Christian Counselling
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Cultural Humility & Anti-Racism
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Afrocentric

Insurance Accepted

  • Green Shield Canada
  • Great-West Life
  • Canada Life
  • Manulife
  • Sunlife
  • Other

Location

Where You Can Find Us

A street map for office location at Kingston, ON K7M3G1

In Person

Kingston, ON K7M3G1

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